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How Does Venus in Virgo Affect Your Relationships and Love Life?

Updated: Sep 26


Venus in Virgo

Venus in Virgo indicates a need to discriminate in relationships and a propensity to examine your values. This will manifest as a need for perfection in your relationships or what you are attracted to. The behavior and personality characteristics of a Venus in Virgo need to feel everything is perfect or that everything is under control( you are aware of the details, and everything is all right). There is a natural trine between Virgo and Venus-ruled Taurus, but there is a sextile between Virgo and Libra, which is also ruled by Veus, which indicates an opportunity for tension.


Venus is also the symbol of the anima in our psyche. If you are a female, you will incorporate characteristics associated with Virgo. If you are a male, you will likely be attracted to someone who projects or embodies Virgo-associated traits.


Qualities Positive-Negative

Venus in Virgo indicates specific personality traits and qualities that resonate with you. Here are some common Venus-Virgo characteristics, with positive aspects and their potential negative or dysfunctional aspects. These qualities are categorized into relationships, judgment, and values/beauty perception, each representing significant functions symbolized by Venus.

Relationships: Stable and enduring relationships are established when you discover the ideal partner after a thorough search. These connections are rooted in a sense of duty, mental and emotional warmth, and underlying sensuality. There is an analytical approach with a focus on practical aspects. However, these relationships can sometimes become monotonous, marked by a tendency to give and receive criticism, enforce unreasonable expectations, and adhere strictly to conventional norms, leading to a somewhat prudish demeanor.

Sense of judgment: Discriminative with an eye for details, focused on form, and mindful of etiquette - Can be perceived as harsh, critical, picky, or prudish.

Values/Sense of Beauty:

  • Prioritizes truth, integrity, order, and practicality

  • Appreciates beauty in form, details, and organization

  • Emphasizes adherence to rules and outward propriety

  • Prefers everything in its place and practical design (Negative)

  • Critically focused, which may hinder appreciation of beauty, tends to favor conventionality (Negative).


Insecurity:

If you embody the traits of an insecure Venus in Virgo, you will be insecure about yourself. You may seek perfection in everyone around you because you lack it within yourself. Striving for perfection in everything around you can fuel feelings of inadequacy. However, as no one and nothing can meet your lofty standards of perfection, you may be constantly dissatisfied. This can lead to anxiety about the inevitable letdowns of an imperfect world. Instead of worrying, critiquing, and fretting, learning to appreciate and enjoy life is essential.


Virgo Essential Oils
Fennel oil

Mercury in Virgo Oil:

Fennel's medicinal reputation is associated with longevity, courage, and strength. It has historically been utilized to repel evil spirits, enhance eyesight, and counteract poisons. Eastern and Western herbal practices recommend it for liver, spleen, and gall bladder obstructions and digestive issues like colic, indigestion, nausea, and flatulence (commonly found in children's 'gripe water').

Carrier oils:

almond

hazelnut

pecan

pomegranate


Crystals

BIRTHSTONES Sardonyx, Peridot

ABUNDANCE STONE Moss Agate

RITUAL STONE Moss Agate

COMPANION CRYSTALS

  • Agate

  • Amazonite

  • Amber

  • Blue Topaz

  • Carnelian

  • Cerussite

  • Chrysocolla

  • Citrine

  • Dioptas

  • Garnet,

  • Magnesite,

  • Moonstone

  • Opal

  • Purple Obsidian

  • Red Tourmaline

  • Rutilated Quartz (Angel Hair)

  • Sapphire

  • Smithsonite

  • Sodalite

  • Sugilite

  • Vanadinite

  • Violet Spinel

  • Watermelon Tourmaline

Mercury in Virgo Crystals

peridot

Peridot, Virgo's birthstone, adds a touch of brightness and vitality while enhancing your keen perception. It aids in shedding habits that hinder your progress and promotes self-compassion—a crucial element in combatting self-criticism. Peridot's powerful cleansing properties help break free from negative cycles and past burdens. If you have completed essential inner work, Peridot swiftly propels you towards a new phase of personal growth, urging you to tap into your higher energies for direction.


Insight:

Communicating your frustrations or desires to your partner constructively, rather than through criticism, can lead to a better reception of the messages. You approach love with a practical mindset, avoiding chasing romantic ideals or getting lost in fantasies. Emotionally resilient, you seek a purposeful love that aligns with the real world. In a committed relationship, you display love through unwavering dedication and a readiness to nurture the bond, taking pride in providing support. While you are a supportive partner, you may tend to be overly critical, focusing on areas that need improvement. Using peridot, a purifying gemstone, during meditation on your heart can help shift agitation and resentment into patience and compassion, emphasizing the positives of the present.


Leave a comment if your sun sign is in Virgo and the house.


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References:

— The Crystal Zodiac: Use Birthstones to Enhance Your Life by Judy Hall

— Depth Astrology: An Astrological Handbook: Volume 2: Planets in Signs by Gargatholil

— Crystal Zodiac: An Astrological Guide to Enhancing Your Life with Crystals by Katie Huang

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