You were told she was a victim who became a voice. You were sold the narrative of the underdog who overcame. You were given the performance of vulnerability wrapped in a billion dollar brand.

There's a narrative going viral right now about Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce. You've probably seen it. The take goes like this: "Successful woman makes man famous. Man's ego can't handle it. Man destroys woman for giving him power." It sounds feminist. It sounds like accountability. It sounds like it's naming patriarchy and protecting women but It's actually the opposite.

You were told he's the "fun guy." The charming athlete who doesn't take himself too seriously. The goofy romantic who fell for Taylor Swift and isn't afraid to show it. The guy who shows up, who celebrates his partner, who's just here for a good time.