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The Nicki Minaj vs Cardi B beef isn't about rap. It's not about talent. It's not about who came first. It's not about bars vs personality. It's about how every hierarchical system under capitalism keeps women divided by forcing them to compete for ONE spot while men get twenty, and it's playing out right now in hip-hop for everyone to see.