When parents ask "Is my child intelligent?" they're really asking, "Can my kid score well on tests? Think quickly? Win arguments?"They're measuring Mercury: logic, data, processing speed. They want to know if their child is a good computer, but they're asking the wrong question entirely.

There's a phrase that should make every adult stop and pay attention: "if you even care." But instead of hearing it as the cry for help it actually is, we dismiss it as teenage drama or attention-seeking. We're missing something crucial.

Your anxiety is a "low vibration." Your anger means you're "not healed." Your sadness proves you're "not manifesting correctly." Your pain is a personal failure to transcend.